RemEMber.
This One's For You and Me....
"After all of this, I really expected things to go back to normal. And I really wanted things to get better, but I guess you never really left my mind. I still put you first in my heart, after all this time"
"Why do we miss a person? It's either because we realize that we never treasured the moments when they were always there and it left us wishing we could turn back time again. Or we were too happy with them, we enjoyed every single moment, that we became so used to the idea of having them around."
"You said you'd be here, and I guess you are. You can see, back at home, I still fall apart. I know it's sad, but that's the way it is. My eyes are tired, they no longer sparkle all the time. We can't let go of each other. I know it's sad, but that's the way it is. You're living your life, without me. You're the one friend I needed to keep, and I know it's sad, but you have made me realize, that's the way it is. Pain is temporary, so is living. But friendship, lasts forever."
"I've learned alot this year, I learned that things don't always turn out the way you planned, or the way you think they should. And that there are things that go wrong and get fixed or go back to the way they were before. I've learned that some things have to stay broken, and that you can get through hard times and keep looking for better ones, as long as you keep loving people who love you back."
"Bad stuff does happen sometimes. Always remember that, but remember that you somehow have to move on. You just pick your head up and stare at something beautiful like the sky, and you will move the heck on."
"It's very hard to ignore the past when it holds the best memories."
"And I didn't know how much I needed you until the end.."
"Terrible things happen, yes. But sometimes those terrible things, they save you."
"You know what still seems to hurt the most? Those seconds in the morning where I have just woken up, and for those few precious seconds, I forget that she is gone. I forget how much I miss her, because for those few seconds, she's still here. And then it hits me, and I remember all of the reasons I didn't want wake up. Yeah, that hurts."
WROTE ON MY FIFTEENTH BIRTHDAY:
"Before my life changed this summer, my birthday wish would be for that cute boy who I could have a relationship with, even if it lasted two days. Or maybe those brand new shoes, that had me in a daze. I'd be happy because I'm finally 15 and maybe I'd be more mature in people's eyes. But now, my newly changed birthday wishes came true. All because, of you. I have a beautiful boyfriend that blesses me everyday, just by being there. I have so many friends that will always care. I've got the world's best family, especially my vandevoorde family. I'm more mature now, because I have to be strong, because everything went wrong. I know Emmy, you're blessing me more and more. And I feel unworthy just like I always did, but you remind me, "that's what best friends are for". and you've taught me, I don't need a fancy car, or diamond rigns. Of course I don't because my best friend has beautiful angel wings."
"I've always wondered if my love is strong enough to make someone stay. I've always wondered why she had to go away. I've always wondered if tomorrow is a day I will get through. I've always wondered why I have to live without you. I've always wondered when I can wake up and the pain won't be there. I've always wondered why life isn't fair. I've always wondered when I get to wake up from this nightmare. And I've always wondered what day this pain goes away, and so does this fear."
"Frustrated because I can't tell if it's real. Mad because I don't know how you feel. Upset because we can't make it right. Sad because I need you day and night. Angry because you can't hand. Aggravated because they don't understand. Disappointed because we can't be together, but happy, because we will still be best friends forever."
"You were there for me for so many years, making me laugh when I was in tears. I will never let anybody take your place, because you're the best friend I've got. You always laughed at my stupid jokes, put up with my worst moods, went along with me crazy ideas, saw me at my weakest moments, and you still always manage to see the best in me. Yeah, you're beautiful because you believe in me, when I fail to believe in myself."
"Everytime my phone rings, I secretly hope that it's somehow you, finally being able to call me to say, "I miss you, too" <3"
"For every memory, I remember. For every day you've been gone, I cry. For every hug we've shared, I smile. For every inside joke, I laugh. For every moment I spent with you, I cherish. For every time you were there for me, I appreciate. For every secret you had, I keep. For every reason this had to happent to us, I trust. Keep me strong, and keep reminding me, that life goes on." <3
When people say friendships don't last forever, they never met us. You're my best friend and probably the only reason I am who I am today. You've helped me shape my character and become a better, stronger person. Only you know everything- i trust you with my whole life. Be strong, stay beautiful. I love you so much.
To every single person out there: NEVER take your best friend for granted. Don't waste time and not tell them how you feel. Appreciate thte little things they do, because one day, they become some of your favorite memories. Even if you're in a fight, keep trying to work it out. Stay true to your best friend, especially if they are true to you. Don't think you've "lost" them if they're still living. And one day, you might get so fed up with eachother that one of you wants to get out of the friendship, but don't give up on them, especially if they never gave up on you. Your best friend is the one person that sees the best in you, be sure to realize that. Because one day it might be too late. One day, you might be writing this, just like I am now. And I pray to God you never are.
"After all of this, I really expected things to go back to normal. And I really wanted things to get better, but I guess you never really left my mind. I still put you first in my heart, after all this time"
"Why do we miss a person? It's either because we realize that we never treasured the moments when they were always there and it left us wishing we could turn back time again. Or we were too happy with them, we enjoyed every single moment, that we became so used to the idea of having them around."
"You said you'd be here, and I guess you are. You can see, back at home, I still fall apart. I know it's sad, but that's the way it is. My eyes are tired, they no longer sparkle all the time. We can't let go of each other. I know it's sad, but that's the way it is. You're living your life, without me. You're the one friend I needed to keep, and I know it's sad, but you have made me realize, that's the way it is. Pain is temporary, so is living. But friendship, lasts forever."
"I've learned alot this year, I learned that things don't always turn out the way you planned, or the way you think they should. And that there are things that go wrong and get fixed or go back to the way they were before. I've learned that some things have to stay broken, and that you can get through hard times and keep looking for better ones, as long as you keep loving people who love you back."
"Bad stuff does happen sometimes. Always remember that, but remember that you somehow have to move on. You just pick your head up and stare at something beautiful like the sky, and you will move the heck on."
"It's very hard to ignore the past when it holds the best memories."
"And I didn't know how much I needed you until the end.."
"Terrible things happen, yes. But sometimes those terrible things, they save you."
"You know what still seems to hurt the most? Those seconds in the morning where I have just woken up, and for those few precious seconds, I forget that she is gone. I forget how much I miss her, because for those few seconds, she's still here. And then it hits me, and I remember all of the reasons I didn't want wake up. Yeah, that hurts."
WROTE ON MY FIFTEENTH BIRTHDAY:
"Before my life changed this summer, my birthday wish would be for that cute boy who I could have a relationship with, even if it lasted two days. Or maybe those brand new shoes, that had me in a daze. I'd be happy because I'm finally 15 and maybe I'd be more mature in people's eyes. But now, my newly changed birthday wishes came true. All because, of you. I have a beautiful boyfriend that blesses me everyday, just by being there. I have so many friends that will always care. I've got the world's best family, especially my vandevoorde family. I'm more mature now, because I have to be strong, because everything went wrong. I know Emmy, you're blessing me more and more. And I feel unworthy just like I always did, but you remind me, "that's what best friends are for". and you've taught me, I don't need a fancy car, or diamond rigns. Of course I don't because my best friend has beautiful angel wings."
"I've always wondered if my love is strong enough to make someone stay. I've always wondered why she had to go away. I've always wondered if tomorrow is a day I will get through. I've always wondered why I have to live without you. I've always wondered when I can wake up and the pain won't be there. I've always wondered why life isn't fair. I've always wondered when I get to wake up from this nightmare. And I've always wondered what day this pain goes away, and so does this fear."
"Frustrated because I can't tell if it's real. Mad because I don't know how you feel. Upset because we can't make it right. Sad because I need you day and night. Angry because you can't hand. Aggravated because they don't understand. Disappointed because we can't be together, but happy, because we will still be best friends forever."
"You were there for me for so many years, making me laugh when I was in tears. I will never let anybody take your place, because you're the best friend I've got. You always laughed at my stupid jokes, put up with my worst moods, went along with me crazy ideas, saw me at my weakest moments, and you still always manage to see the best in me. Yeah, you're beautiful because you believe in me, when I fail to believe in myself."
"Everytime my phone rings, I secretly hope that it's somehow you, finally being able to call me to say, "I miss you, too" <3"
"For every memory, I remember. For every day you've been gone, I cry. For every hug we've shared, I smile. For every inside joke, I laugh. For every moment I spent with you, I cherish. For every time you were there for me, I appreciate. For every secret you had, I keep. For every reason this had to happent to us, I trust. Keep me strong, and keep reminding me, that life goes on." <3
When people say friendships don't last forever, they never met us. You're my best friend and probably the only reason I am who I am today. You've helped me shape my character and become a better, stronger person. Only you know everything- i trust you with my whole life. Be strong, stay beautiful. I love you so much.
To every single person out there: NEVER take your best friend for granted. Don't waste time and not tell them how you feel. Appreciate thte little things they do, because one day, they become some of your favorite memories. Even if you're in a fight, keep trying to work it out. Stay true to your best friend, especially if they are true to you. Don't think you've "lost" them if they're still living. And one day, you might get so fed up with eachother that one of you wants to get out of the friendship, but don't give up on them, especially if they never gave up on you. Your best friend is the one person that sees the best in you, be sure to realize that. Because one day it might be too late. One day, you might be writing this, just like I am now. And I pray to God you never are.
^Those people up there.... have broke me, saved me, made me, believed in me, gave up on me, hurt me, helped me, made me cry, wiped my tears, taught me how to smile, and made me realize that i need them in my life for a while. but some have heledp me learn, they don't need me. But thanks, for making me into the person i am today.
And this is for each of you...
"Affection isn't measured when both takes care of each other. It is measured when one ignores, and the other still continues to care."
"Your friends are your release; they're who you have the most fun with. And yet when the going gets tough, those people turn around and suddenly, they're not just making you laugh. They're being this rock and giving you all their advice, even though you're so much your own person. If you dissect yourself, I guarantee you, your friends are in there. Their influence is incredible. They're the people whom you need most in your life."
"Life is like a party. You invite a lot of people; some go, some join you, some laugh with you, some didn't come. But in the end, after the fun, there would be a few who would clean up the mess with you. And most of the time, those were the uninvited ones."
"Kids, you need to know some things. First off, life isn’t all about who you're dating or what you're wearing. As much as you think people care, they really don't care how perfect your hair is, or how ripped you are. Yes, you need to take care of yourself, but there are more important things in life. The world doesn't care about your 90 % average, or your first place dance award. Acne will go away, and your hair cut will grow back out. Life is meant to be fun; it's about living for moments, and not for people. Life is about how you live, not how you look. You CAN spend your weekend lying in bed watching movies, or you CAN go out and party all weekend. As long as you're enjoying life, and as long as you're happy, it doesn't matter what you're doing. If it’s not fun, it’s not worth doing. So please be yourself and enjoy life. It's too short to be miserable."
"It’s not that I believe everything happens for a reason. It’s just that I think tha tsome things are meant to be broken. Imperfect. Chaotic. It’s the universe’s way of providing contrast, you know? There has to be a few holes in the road, because that’s just how life is."
"It's amazing what one person can do. Some people build you up just to bend & break you. Some people bring out parts of you that you had no clue existed. All throughout life we meet people & every single one of them brings something to us, gives us some sort of purpose. We come across people that will hurt us so incredibly much that it seems unbearable to go on with our lives, but the truth is ; We can overcome anything we want to if we believe in it enough, if we have faith in ourselves, in who we are. The most important thing in life is to find yourself, know who you are at all times & stand by that for the rest of your life. No one has the right to tell you who you are or try & control your life cause it's yours. Your life is meant to be lived by no one else but yourself. We sometimes let people get the best of us, destroy us & change our opinions on what we believe is true. Only you can know what's right for yourself, you have the power, you make the choices & you learn. Each experience we go through in life is a lesson to be learned. We all make mistakes, why is that so hard for some to understand? No one should be judged by the mistakes they have made. It's past news. Everything happens for a reason, & without the hard times, how would we ever realize our true strength? It's only through a time of suffering when we realize how strong we truly are inside, when we realize how much we can actually put up with & deal with before we eventually break."
"Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no second chances, you just have to live life to the fullest. laugh as much as you can, spend all your money, tell someone what they mean to you, tell someone off, speak out, dare to be different, dance in the pouring rain, hold someone's hand, comfort a friend, pig out, fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late, && smile till your face hurts. don't be afraid to take chances or fall in love and most of all, live in the moment because when you look back someday, knowing you have no regrets its going to be what makes you smile."
"Sometimes when you have tried so hard to fix things, remember: you can't change someone who doesn't appreciate you. You will just have to let them go and move on to someone who does."
"Too often we don't realize what we have until it's gone, too often we're to stubborn to say 'sorry, i was wrong' too often it seems we hurt the one's closest to our hearts and we let the most foolish things tear us apart."
"Why do we let the acceptance from others make or break us? Why do we base how attractive or charming or good of a person we are on how many guys like us or don't like us? Why can't we just suck it up and say "Hey, I'm a pretty cool person"? When guys don't like us back, why can't we accept that it's their loss, not ours?"
"I really enjoy spending time with you, even if we're just going to be sitting around and talking about nothing. There are a million things I love about you,like your nose or the way you smile, the way you look me in the eye too. And I just get the greatest feeling when I make you laugh, I feel as if my company makes you happy, and that's what I wish for you. For you to be happy. And when I see you laugh at my clumsy ways, it just makes me want tto be your friend for the rest of my life, so I can see a smile on your face."
"Never reject anybody in your life, because good people give us happiness and bad people give us experience. Both are essential in life."
"Life can be extremely hard at times, people will lie, back stab you, and put you down. But always keep your head up, smile, and never let them know what hurts you the most."
Beautiful - That is a word you give a definition to. You are beautiful. Everything about you is beautiful. Your heart, your face, your body, your soul, and everything about you is beautiful. If someone says your not, they're crazy. But don't believe them because there are thousands admiring your beauty. Always remember that lovely. Stay beautiful.
We tend to forget that happiness doesn't come as a result of getting something we don't have, but rather of recognizing and appreciating what we do have.
I fall back on the bed surrounded by the laughter of new found friends. I realize happiness doesn't lie with the ones who know you the best, but those who don't know you at all.
We tend to be in despair when the person we love leaves us, but the truth is it’s not our loss, it’s theirs. They left the one person in the world who would never give up on them.
Life is for having fun. Don't be stupid and waste it on some guy/girl who is gonna act like he/she hates you tomorrow. Never waste it on some one who doesn't want their friends to know they're in love with you. Don't give that person the rest of you tears or a month or a year of your life when he/she treats you badly and doesn't mind to make you cry. Every person deserves some one who wants to brag about them. Every person deserves some one who makes them smile and laugh at their worst moments. We all deserve at least that.
Breathe. Let go. And remind yourself that this very moment is the only one you know you have for sure.
And this is for each of you...
"Affection isn't measured when both takes care of each other. It is measured when one ignores, and the other still continues to care."
"Your friends are your release; they're who you have the most fun with. And yet when the going gets tough, those people turn around and suddenly, they're not just making you laugh. They're being this rock and giving you all their advice, even though you're so much your own person. If you dissect yourself, I guarantee you, your friends are in there. Their influence is incredible. They're the people whom you need most in your life."
"Life is like a party. You invite a lot of people; some go, some join you, some laugh with you, some didn't come. But in the end, after the fun, there would be a few who would clean up the mess with you. And most of the time, those were the uninvited ones."
"Kids, you need to know some things. First off, life isn’t all about who you're dating or what you're wearing. As much as you think people care, they really don't care how perfect your hair is, or how ripped you are. Yes, you need to take care of yourself, but there are more important things in life. The world doesn't care about your 90 % average, or your first place dance award. Acne will go away, and your hair cut will grow back out. Life is meant to be fun; it's about living for moments, and not for people. Life is about how you live, not how you look. You CAN spend your weekend lying in bed watching movies, or you CAN go out and party all weekend. As long as you're enjoying life, and as long as you're happy, it doesn't matter what you're doing. If it’s not fun, it’s not worth doing. So please be yourself and enjoy life. It's too short to be miserable."
"It’s not that I believe everything happens for a reason. It’s just that I think tha tsome things are meant to be broken. Imperfect. Chaotic. It’s the universe’s way of providing contrast, you know? There has to be a few holes in the road, because that’s just how life is."
"It's amazing what one person can do. Some people build you up just to bend & break you. Some people bring out parts of you that you had no clue existed. All throughout life we meet people & every single one of them brings something to us, gives us some sort of purpose. We come across people that will hurt us so incredibly much that it seems unbearable to go on with our lives, but the truth is ; We can overcome anything we want to if we believe in it enough, if we have faith in ourselves, in who we are. The most important thing in life is to find yourself, know who you are at all times & stand by that for the rest of your life. No one has the right to tell you who you are or try & control your life cause it's yours. Your life is meant to be lived by no one else but yourself. We sometimes let people get the best of us, destroy us & change our opinions on what we believe is true. Only you can know what's right for yourself, you have the power, you make the choices & you learn. Each experience we go through in life is a lesson to be learned. We all make mistakes, why is that so hard for some to understand? No one should be judged by the mistakes they have made. It's past news. Everything happens for a reason, & without the hard times, how would we ever realize our true strength? It's only through a time of suffering when we realize how strong we truly are inside, when we realize how much we can actually put up with & deal with before we eventually break."
"Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no second chances, you just have to live life to the fullest. laugh as much as you can, spend all your money, tell someone what they mean to you, tell someone off, speak out, dare to be different, dance in the pouring rain, hold someone's hand, comfort a friend, pig out, fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late, && smile till your face hurts. don't be afraid to take chances or fall in love and most of all, live in the moment because when you look back someday, knowing you have no regrets its going to be what makes you smile."
"Sometimes when you have tried so hard to fix things, remember: you can't change someone who doesn't appreciate you. You will just have to let them go and move on to someone who does."
"Too often we don't realize what we have until it's gone, too often we're to stubborn to say 'sorry, i was wrong' too often it seems we hurt the one's closest to our hearts and we let the most foolish things tear us apart."
"Why do we let the acceptance from others make or break us? Why do we base how attractive or charming or good of a person we are on how many guys like us or don't like us? Why can't we just suck it up and say "Hey, I'm a pretty cool person"? When guys don't like us back, why can't we accept that it's their loss, not ours?"
"I really enjoy spending time with you, even if we're just going to be sitting around and talking about nothing. There are a million things I love about you,like your nose or the way you smile, the way you look me in the eye too. And I just get the greatest feeling when I make you laugh, I feel as if my company makes you happy, and that's what I wish for you. For you to be happy. And when I see you laugh at my clumsy ways, it just makes me want tto be your friend for the rest of my life, so I can see a smile on your face."
"Never reject anybody in your life, because good people give us happiness and bad people give us experience. Both are essential in life."
"Life can be extremely hard at times, people will lie, back stab you, and put you down. But always keep your head up, smile, and never let them know what hurts you the most."
Beautiful - That is a word you give a definition to. You are beautiful. Everything about you is beautiful. Your heart, your face, your body, your soul, and everything about you is beautiful. If someone says your not, they're crazy. But don't believe them because there are thousands admiring your beauty. Always remember that lovely. Stay beautiful.
We tend to forget that happiness doesn't come as a result of getting something we don't have, but rather of recognizing and appreciating what we do have.
I fall back on the bed surrounded by the laughter of new found friends. I realize happiness doesn't lie with the ones who know you the best, but those who don't know you at all.
We tend to be in despair when the person we love leaves us, but the truth is it’s not our loss, it’s theirs. They left the one person in the world who would never give up on them.
Life is for having fun. Don't be stupid and waste it on some guy/girl who is gonna act like he/she hates you tomorrow. Never waste it on some one who doesn't want their friends to know they're in love with you. Don't give that person the rest of you tears or a month or a year of your life when he/she treats you badly and doesn't mind to make you cry. Every person deserves some one who wants to brag about them. Every person deserves some one who makes them smile and laugh at their worst moments. We all deserve at least that.
Breathe. Let go. And remind yourself that this very moment is the only one you know you have for sure.
*BOYSBOYSBOYS* who have done me wrong, and one's who have made me strong, I thank you all for that. (I would put a picture, but I think every single one of them know who they are.) :)
This is for the idiots who we call boys, that play girls, the boys that go through their phone and pick a few girls and text them all. Saying the same crap. Saying how beautiful they are. How they need to hang out. How much they miss them. This is for the boys that want to have options and not just settle down for one girl. And this is especially for the ones that don't even realize it. That don't feel one bit of remorse for the stuff they do. The hearts they break. The girls they hurt. This is for the boys that won't ever change, and for the girls that can never get over them.
I know I love him. And I don’t know what to do about it. I mean, look how many years it’s been. Yeah, I’ve had a few relationships, and they were great while they lasted. But you were always still there in my heart. And I’ve got guys talking to me all day long.. a lot of flirting and having fun, so many invitations to become part of their life and start something new. And yet, this doesn’t fill me up inside. They don’t interest me. I still go to bed every night thinking of you.
You didn't love her. You just didn't want to be alone. Or maybe, maybe she was just good for your ego. Or maybe she made you feel better about your miserable life. But you didn't love her, because you don't destroy people you love.
It’s when I’m standing six feet away from you and not being able to find the words to tell you how much I love you and how much I miss you that I want to just scream to the whole room that I’m still in love with you. It’s when I’m sitting alone with the phone in my hand dialing your number and hanging up that I would trade a thousand tomorrows for just one yesterday. Then I could just call you to tell you goodnight. It’s when I am really sad about something and need someone to talk to that I realize you’re the only one who really knew me at all. It’s when I cry myself to sleep at night and it hits me how much I would give to hold you at that very moment. It’s when I think about you that I realize no one else in the world is meant for me.
Even after every bad thing he'd done to me, every lie he'd ever told, every other girl he'd ever kissed, I knew somewhere deep down inside he really did love me, in his own messed up way. Because you can't keep coming back to the same person time after time if those feelings aren't there.
If there's one thing I could take away from my previous relationships it would be to search for a beautiful heart, not necessarily a beautiful face. Beautiful people are not always good, but good people are always beautiful. There is nothing more beautiful than an intelligent, hard-working, independent, respectful man. It's hard to say you deserve better when you, ladies, are in control of what you deserve.
Most people are only players because they got played and haven't let go of the past. You got your heart broken, life sucks, doesn't it, but you shouldn't mess up someone else's life because of it.
So you know what makes letting go of a crush so hard? The fear that the moment you let go, they'll catch on.
Every girl needs a man. You know, the kind that'll treat you right. The kind that has enough respect for you & is willing to change, just to be with you. The kind that searches for you with all his heart & that can be trusted in a room full of beautiful girls. Every girl needs a man who won't cheat on her because he knows she's got all that he wants & needs already. He would be willing to be your friend & your lover & won't mind calling you early in the morning just to say good morning or late at night to say good night; maybe even sing you a good morning song & tell you a bedtime story or talk to you until you fall asleep. This guy will be the kind that'll do anything for you, even if it's to just go to the store & buy you your favorite kind of candy. He would defend & fight for you & wouldn't bail on you for his friends when you need him most. The kind that won't leave you lonely & wondering; the one that calls you surprisingly, even if he's out with his friend, to just tell you that he loves & misses you a lot. The kind that isn't afraid to smile to his friends every time you're around & tell them, "She's the one". The kind that appreciates you for the things you do for him, even if they're little. The ones that actually thank you for the little love notes you leave him, waits for you when you're falling behind, & opens doors for you. Every girl needs a man who will take you out on dates once in awhile & buys you flowers just because it's a Wednesday. The kind of guy that notices your hair when you just got it cut or done beautifully for him. He would remind you that he loves you & that he's happy to be with you, just in case you forget. The kind that just doesn't want kisses & hugs, but to actually be loved & to love. You deserve a guy that will call you beautiful instead of hot, who kisses your forehead when you're down, tells you to be strong & to not cry, & when you do cry, he'd cry with you when times are hard. Those kinds that will go through thick & thin with & for you. Those kinds that just loves you for who you are & not for who you aren't; loves you because you're his little brat & he's your teddy bear.
You're not the breath I breathe, just the sweet scent that I enjoy. You're not the sights I see, just the most beautiful of them. You're not the water I drink, just the flavor that makes it taste so good. You're not the ground I walk on, just the partner I sometimes lean on. You're not the blood in my veins, just what makes it burn so sweetly. You're not my life, just the one I want to spend it with. You're not my world, just the best thing in it.
It's weird how one day you feel you'll never be able to live your life without him, and then the next day you’re doing exactly that.
The first time you fall in love changes your life forever. And no matter how hard you try, the feeling never goes away.
There's a reason I said I'd be happy alone. It wasn't because I thought I'd be happy alone. It was because I thought if I loved someone and then it fell apart, I might not make it. It's easier to be alone. Because what if you learn you need love and then you don't have it? What if you shape your life around it, and then it falls apart?
It’s when I’m standing six feet away from you and not being able to find the words to tell you how much I love you and how much I miss you that I want to just scream to the whole room that I’m still in love with you. It’s when I’m sitting alone with the phone in my hand dialing your number and hanging up that I would trade a thousand tomorrows for just one yesterday. Then I could just call you to tell you goodnight. It’s when I am really sad about something and need someone to talk to that I realize you’re the only one who really knew me at all. It’s when I cry myself to sleep at night and it hits me how much I would give to hold you at that very moment. It’s when I think about you that I realize no one else in the world is meant for me.
You can say sorry a million times, say I love you as much as you want, say whatever you want, whenever you want, but if you’re not going to prove that the things you say are true, then don’t say anything at all, because if you can’t show it, your words don’t mean a thing.
As great as we have beem, I think that I would be better off if I let you go. See, you know you have me, but I can't say the same for you. I don't know if I have you or if I ever will. That's what breaks my heart. I can't spend my entire life waiting for you to decide what you want, or if you think we'll make it. I just can't. So for now, I'm saying goodbye.
He was not my boyfriend. On the other hand, he wasn't just a friend either. Instead, our relationship was elastic, stretching between those two extremes; depending on who else was around, and how much either of us had to drink, and other varying factors. This was exactly what I wanted, as commitments had never really been my thing. And it wasn't like it was hard, either. The trick was never giving more than you were willing to lose.
A healthy relationship keeps the doors and windows wide open. Plenty of air is circulating and no one feels trapped. Relationships thrive in this environment. Keep your doors and windows open. If the person is meant to be in your life, all the open doors and windows in the world, will not make them leave. Trust that truth.
Mad for what? For breaking my heart? Or taking my innocence away? All the lies? Maybe for letting me put all my trust in you only to be betrayed? Or the way you think it's crazy that I'm crying over it, cause you think breaking up is no big deal? Am I mad? No. More like crushed.
being single doesn't always mean you are available. sometimes you have to put up a sign that says "do not disturb" on your heart.
After all this time, its still you. After all the men ive dated, i run into you and my heart still beats faster then any other person has ever managed to do. I can honestlly tell you i dont think i will ever get over our love. We run into eachother 20 years from now i will still feel this way every single time. Its a sad, hopless, painfull, realization. But i wouldnt want it any other way.
Don't follow something you really mean with "just kidding" to make things less awkward. Make thins awkward. Make someone stand there fighting with out knowing what to say. Because no matter how they react, you put yourself out there, laid it one the table, poured out your soul.
We were so close; now so far apart, what happened? Things seemed so perfect, now they seem so wrong. I feel like I don't know you anymore, at all. You used to be able to talk to me about everything you felt. Now it's like we're strangers. My heart is starting to melt. We always used to talk until the middle of the night. I'm ot sure what happened, but I can't help but wonder what I did wrong.
What I don't understand is how you think it's okay to hurt me the way you do. There were days that I couldn't wait to talk to you, or see you. But it's not like you ever cared about me. Because i cared about you, I always did.
I know I love him. And I don’t know what to do about it. I mean, look how many years it’s been. Yeah, I’ve had a few relationships, and they were great while they lasted. But you were always still there in my heart. And I’ve got guys talking to me all day long.. a lot of flirting and having fun, so many invitations to become part of their life and start something new. And yet, this doesn’t fill me up inside. They don’t interest me. I still go to bed every night thinking of you.
You didn't love her. You just didn't want to be alone. Or maybe, maybe she was just good for your ego. Or maybe she made you feel better about your miserable life. But you didn't love her, because you don't destroy people you love.
It’s when I’m standing six feet away from you and not being able to find the words to tell you how much I love you and how much I miss you that I want to just scream to the whole room that I’m still in love with you. It’s when I’m sitting alone with the phone in my hand dialing your number and hanging up that I would trade a thousand tomorrows for just one yesterday. Then I could just call you to tell you goodnight. It’s when I am really sad about something and need someone to talk to that I realize you’re the only one who really knew me at all. It’s when I cry myself to sleep at night and it hits me how much I would give to hold you at that very moment. It’s when I think about you that I realize no one else in the world is meant for me.
Even after every bad thing he'd done to me, every lie he'd ever told, every other girl he'd ever kissed, I knew somewhere deep down inside he really did love me, in his own messed up way. Because you can't keep coming back to the same person time after time if those feelings aren't there.
If there's one thing I could take away from my previous relationships it would be to search for a beautiful heart, not necessarily a beautiful face. Beautiful people are not always good, but good people are always beautiful. There is nothing more beautiful than an intelligent, hard-working, independent, respectful man. It's hard to say you deserve better when you, ladies, are in control of what you deserve.
Most people are only players because they got played and haven't let go of the past. You got your heart broken, life sucks, doesn't it, but you shouldn't mess up someone else's life because of it.
So you know what makes letting go of a crush so hard? The fear that the moment you let go, they'll catch on.
Every girl needs a man. You know, the kind that'll treat you right. The kind that has enough respect for you & is willing to change, just to be with you. The kind that searches for you with all his heart & that can be trusted in a room full of beautiful girls. Every girl needs a man who won't cheat on her because he knows she's got all that he wants & needs already. He would be willing to be your friend & your lover & won't mind calling you early in the morning just to say good morning or late at night to say good night; maybe even sing you a good morning song & tell you a bedtime story or talk to you until you fall asleep. This guy will be the kind that'll do anything for you, even if it's to just go to the store & buy you your favorite kind of candy. He would defend & fight for you & wouldn't bail on you for his friends when you need him most. The kind that won't leave you lonely & wondering; the one that calls you surprisingly, even if he's out with his friend, to just tell you that he loves & misses you a lot. The kind that isn't afraid to smile to his friends every time you're around & tell them, "She's the one". The kind that appreciates you for the things you do for him, even if they're little. The ones that actually thank you for the little love notes you leave him, waits for you when you're falling behind, & opens doors for you. Every girl needs a man who will take you out on dates once in awhile & buys you flowers just because it's a Wednesday. The kind of guy that notices your hair when you just got it cut or done beautifully for him. He would remind you that he loves you & that he's happy to be with you, just in case you forget. The kind that just doesn't want kisses & hugs, but to actually be loved & to love. You deserve a guy that will call you beautiful instead of hot, who kisses your forehead when you're down, tells you to be strong & to not cry, & when you do cry, he'd cry with you when times are hard. Those kinds that will go through thick & thin with & for you. Those kinds that just loves you for who you are & not for who you aren't; loves you because you're his little brat & he's your teddy bear.
You're not the breath I breathe, just the sweet scent that I enjoy. You're not the sights I see, just the most beautiful of them. You're not the water I drink, just the flavor that makes it taste so good. You're not the ground I walk on, just the partner I sometimes lean on. You're not the blood in my veins, just what makes it burn so sweetly. You're not my life, just the one I want to spend it with. You're not my world, just the best thing in it.
It's weird how one day you feel you'll never be able to live your life without him, and then the next day you’re doing exactly that.
The first time you fall in love changes your life forever. And no matter how hard you try, the feeling never goes away.
There's a reason I said I'd be happy alone. It wasn't because I thought I'd be happy alone. It was because I thought if I loved someone and then it fell apart, I might not make it. It's easier to be alone. Because what if you learn you need love and then you don't have it? What if you shape your life around it, and then it falls apart?
It’s when I’m standing six feet away from you and not being able to find the words to tell you how much I love you and how much I miss you that I want to just scream to the whole room that I’m still in love with you. It’s when I’m sitting alone with the phone in my hand dialing your number and hanging up that I would trade a thousand tomorrows for just one yesterday. Then I could just call you to tell you goodnight. It’s when I am really sad about something and need someone to talk to that I realize you’re the only one who really knew me at all. It’s when I cry myself to sleep at night and it hits me how much I would give to hold you at that very moment. It’s when I think about you that I realize no one else in the world is meant for me.
You can say sorry a million times, say I love you as much as you want, say whatever you want, whenever you want, but if you’re not going to prove that the things you say are true, then don’t say anything at all, because if you can’t show it, your words don’t mean a thing.
As great as we have beem, I think that I would be better off if I let you go. See, you know you have me, but I can't say the same for you. I don't know if I have you or if I ever will. That's what breaks my heart. I can't spend my entire life waiting for you to decide what you want, or if you think we'll make it. I just can't. So for now, I'm saying goodbye.
He was not my boyfriend. On the other hand, he wasn't just a friend either. Instead, our relationship was elastic, stretching between those two extremes; depending on who else was around, and how much either of us had to drink, and other varying factors. This was exactly what I wanted, as commitments had never really been my thing. And it wasn't like it was hard, either. The trick was never giving more than you were willing to lose.
A healthy relationship keeps the doors and windows wide open. Plenty of air is circulating and no one feels trapped. Relationships thrive in this environment. Keep your doors and windows open. If the person is meant to be in your life, all the open doors and windows in the world, will not make them leave. Trust that truth.
Mad for what? For breaking my heart? Or taking my innocence away? All the lies? Maybe for letting me put all my trust in you only to be betrayed? Or the way you think it's crazy that I'm crying over it, cause you think breaking up is no big deal? Am I mad? No. More like crushed.
being single doesn't always mean you are available. sometimes you have to put up a sign that says "do not disturb" on your heart.
After all this time, its still you. After all the men ive dated, i run into you and my heart still beats faster then any other person has ever managed to do. I can honestlly tell you i dont think i will ever get over our love. We run into eachother 20 years from now i will still feel this way every single time. Its a sad, hopless, painfull, realization. But i wouldnt want it any other way.
Don't follow something you really mean with "just kidding" to make things less awkward. Make thins awkward. Make someone stand there fighting with out knowing what to say. Because no matter how they react, you put yourself out there, laid it one the table, poured out your soul.
We were so close; now so far apart, what happened? Things seemed so perfect, now they seem so wrong. I feel like I don't know you anymore, at all. You used to be able to talk to me about everything you felt. Now it's like we're strangers. My heart is starting to melt. We always used to talk until the middle of the night. I'm ot sure what happened, but I can't help but wonder what I did wrong.
What I don't understand is how you think it's okay to hurt me the way you do. There were days that I couldn't wait to talk to you, or see you. But it's not like you ever cared about me. Because i cared about you, I always did.
And last but not least, Me.
"She’s the girl who never sleeps without her teddy bear by her side. She's the girl who says she isn't ticklish, but really is. She's the girl who will not give up on you if she really believes in you. She's the girl who believes in loving somebody forever."
"You have to get hurt. That's how you learn. The strongest people out there, the ones who laugh the hardest with a genuine smile, those are the people who have fought the toughest battles. Because they've decided that they're not going to let anything hold them down, they're showing the world who's the boss."
"I'm not miserable, but I'm not happy. I'm not strong, but I'm not weak. I'm not rude, but I'm not polite. I'm not popular, but I'm not a loner. I'm not sexy, but I'm not horrid. I'm not dumb, but I'm no genius. I'm not you, but I am me. Accept it."
"The harder the life, the stronger you'll become. The stronger you become, the easier the life will be"
"She's just a mess, a walking disaster who paints on a smile so she doesn't have to hear, "Are you okay?" ten thousand times a day. Who makes sure others are happy before she is. Who cares too much and messes up no matter what decision she chooses. Who just wishes she had more, "Wow, I'm happy," moments."
"I have heard there are troubles of more than one kind. Some come from ahead and some come from behind. But I've bought a big bat. I'm all ready you see. Now my troubles are going to have troubles with me."
In real life, saying the right thing at the right moment is beyond crucial. So crucial, in fact, that most of us start to hesitate, for fear of saying the wrong thing at the wrong time. But lately what I've begun to fear more than that is letting the moment pass without saying anything. But if you know how you feel and so clearly know what you need to say, I don't think you should wait. I think you should speak now. -Taylor Swift
"I've learned that no matter what happens, or how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow. I've learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles these three things: a rainy day, the elderly, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights. I've learned that regardless of your relationship with your parents, you'll miss them when they're gone from your life. I've learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance. I've learned that you shouldn't go through life with a catcher's mitt on both hands; you need to be able to throw some things back. I've learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision. I've learned that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one. I've learned that every day you should reach out and touch someone. People love a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back. I've learned that I still have a lot to learn. I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel."
I want to be hard to forget. I want to have the kind of impact on you where you know you'll never find anyone to take my place. I want that because that's what you are to me. I want it to hurt like hell when you see me. I want you to feel what you put me through.
This life is what you make it. No matter what, you’re going to mess up sometimes, it’s a universal truth. But the good part is you get to decide how you’re going to mess it up. Girls will be your friends – they’ll act like it anyway. But just remember, some come, some go. The ones that stay with you through everything – they’re your true best friends. Don’t let go of them. Also remember, sisters make the best friends in the world. As for lovers, well, they’ll come and go too. And babe, I hate to say it, most of them – actually pretty much all of them- are going to break your heart, but you can’t give up because if you give up, you’ll never find your soul mate. You’ll never find that half who makes you whole and that goes for everything. Just because you fail once, doesn’t mean you’re gonna fail at everything. Keep trying, hold on, and always, always, always believe in yourself, because if you don’t, then who will, sweetie? So keep our head high, keep your chin up, and most importantly, keep smiling, because life’s a beautiful thing and there’s so much to smile about.
There's no point in judging someone based on the past and their mistakes. That can't be changed. If you would take a second to notice that they learned from it all, and are making the best of what they've got, then you'd realize that you should probably stop talking.
The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen.
Don't attach yourself to anyone who shows you the least bit of attention because you're lonely. Loneliness is the human condition. No one is ever going to fill that space, the best you can do is know yourself, know what you want.
"You have to get hurt. That's how you learn. The strongest people out there, the ones who laugh the hardest with a genuine smile, those are the people who have fought the toughest battles. Because they've decided that they're not going to let anything hold them down, they're showing the world who's the boss."
"I'm not miserable, but I'm not happy. I'm not strong, but I'm not weak. I'm not rude, but I'm not polite. I'm not popular, but I'm not a loner. I'm not sexy, but I'm not horrid. I'm not dumb, but I'm no genius. I'm not you, but I am me. Accept it."
"The harder the life, the stronger you'll become. The stronger you become, the easier the life will be"
"She's just a mess, a walking disaster who paints on a smile so she doesn't have to hear, "Are you okay?" ten thousand times a day. Who makes sure others are happy before she is. Who cares too much and messes up no matter what decision she chooses. Who just wishes she had more, "Wow, I'm happy," moments."
"I have heard there are troubles of more than one kind. Some come from ahead and some come from behind. But I've bought a big bat. I'm all ready you see. Now my troubles are going to have troubles with me."
In real life, saying the right thing at the right moment is beyond crucial. So crucial, in fact, that most of us start to hesitate, for fear of saying the wrong thing at the wrong time. But lately what I've begun to fear more than that is letting the moment pass without saying anything. But if you know how you feel and so clearly know what you need to say, I don't think you should wait. I think you should speak now. -Taylor Swift
"I've learned that no matter what happens, or how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow. I've learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles these three things: a rainy day, the elderly, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights. I've learned that regardless of your relationship with your parents, you'll miss them when they're gone from your life. I've learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance. I've learned that you shouldn't go through life with a catcher's mitt on both hands; you need to be able to throw some things back. I've learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision. I've learned that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one. I've learned that every day you should reach out and touch someone. People love a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back. I've learned that I still have a lot to learn. I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel."
I want to be hard to forget. I want to have the kind of impact on you where you know you'll never find anyone to take my place. I want that because that's what you are to me. I want it to hurt like hell when you see me. I want you to feel what you put me through.
This life is what you make it. No matter what, you’re going to mess up sometimes, it’s a universal truth. But the good part is you get to decide how you’re going to mess it up. Girls will be your friends – they’ll act like it anyway. But just remember, some come, some go. The ones that stay with you through everything – they’re your true best friends. Don’t let go of them. Also remember, sisters make the best friends in the world. As for lovers, well, they’ll come and go too. And babe, I hate to say it, most of them – actually pretty much all of them- are going to break your heart, but you can’t give up because if you give up, you’ll never find your soul mate. You’ll never find that half who makes you whole and that goes for everything. Just because you fail once, doesn’t mean you’re gonna fail at everything. Keep trying, hold on, and always, always, always believe in yourself, because if you don’t, then who will, sweetie? So keep our head high, keep your chin up, and most importantly, keep smiling, because life’s a beautiful thing and there’s so much to smile about.
There's no point in judging someone based on the past and their mistakes. That can't be changed. If you would take a second to notice that they learned from it all, and are making the best of what they've got, then you'd realize that you should probably stop talking.
The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen.
Don't attach yourself to anyone who shows you the least bit of attention because you're lonely. Loneliness is the human condition. No one is ever going to fill that space, the best you can do is know yourself, know what you want.